August: on a sunny San Diego Saturday I’m not at the
beach, the bay or the salon. I’m covered in dirt, shoveling soil at home. It’s
81 degrees. Sweat is dripping down my front, my back, my face. I’m the essence of
glamour.
No one is forcing me to toil like this on a weekend. This
choice is mine. The parkway strip between the street and the sidewalk
desperately needs a makeover and so 81 degrees or not, I’m moving dirt, getting
blisters, waving at neighbors, and sweating. I love it.
This makeover is mostly about decreasing the number of weeds
in the parkway strip in front of our house. We have been here fifteen years,
and for a lot of that time, certain projects simply had to wait. I have three
kids to keep alive. But the kiddos are more self-sufficient now, and this
summer I decided that the Natural Look (aka weed patch) had reached its
expiration date. This is a chance to give a new look to the front of our house.
My requirements: it must be low maintenance, visually interesting, and budget
friendly.
Removing the weeds is easier said than done. They’re hearty
and stubborn and they’ve dug in their heels. It is taking a lot of shovel work
to dislodge them. They are the cockroaches of the plant world—hard to eliminate
and they like to crop up in unexpected places, even when you think you got them
all.
Here is a photo of the parkway strip before the makeover:
It has some personality, with the pops of blue and my
succulents. But the weeds are not part of the look I want. Yet how do you get
rid of them? Weed cloth was under all the weeds in front, and still, weeds
grew. So I’m digging up all the weeds, and I will pour concrete pavers in the
front. I’m going to reposition the blue planters I created a year ago and use
plants I already have. Concrete for the pavers is inexpensive and I am reusing
our river rock. Frugal and Fabulous is the theme.
September: several times during this project I have
questioned my own sanity. I love challenging myself, but where is the line
between a healthy challenge and self-torture? It’s blurry. At times progress
feels slow. But I can see the progress, and this feels satisfying. When you
have young kids, there are so many chores that never seem to be completed. (See: laundry, cooking and
dish-washing.) The moment you finish certain chores, they start piling up
again. So seeing the progress in Operation Dirt is encouraging. Also, I’m
getting a great workout for my back, arms, shoulders and legs. I’m doing it all
myself, which feels good. Or crazy. It alternates.
Here are the stats:
· 1,740 pounds of dry concrete mix is what I used.
(The weight once I added water? Heavy.)
·
43 feet by 4 feet is the size of the parkway
strip.
·
36 pavers is how many I created.
·
$18 dollars is what I spent on mosaic pieces and
stained glass. (I smashed them into slivers, so I got a lot of bang for my buck).
· 101 bricks were used (free from Craigslist!).
·
Gallons of sweat rolling off my body? Countless.
Late September: I have been mixing and shoveling
hundreds of pounds of concrete. I’m feeling pretty fierce! But my forearms feel
like they have been trampled by a gorilla. Still, I’m making progress and the
weeds are gone.
Some days I look at my project and feel like Sisyphus,
rolling the boulder up a hill only to have it crash down. Will I ever be
finished? Other days I look at my work and feel self-conscious about my
mistakes. And on certain days I like how it all looks, and I am proud that I
gave it a try. Stepping out of my comfort zone is helping me to grow.
In the grand scheme of things, this project is not super
important. Being a good mom and a decent person are much more important to me
than how the parkway strip looks. But I see this strip many times each day and
giving it a makeover is giving me a lift. (And blisters.) Making it look better
is worth my effort. My neighbors’ gardens give me a boost, so if something
colorful in our yard also gives our neighbors a boost, it’s a win-win.
And isn’t that how life is? Oftentimes it’s the small things
that give a lot of satisfaction….