We took a road trip a week ago and lived to tell. The
youngest in our group was NOT happy about being confined to a car seat for
hours on end, and the rest of us heard about in the form of shrieks at a very
loud volume. There were the typical road trip moments every family experiences:
“Are we there yet?” “No. We left only ten minutes ago.” Or have you experienced
this one? “Before we get into the car, does anyone have to use the potty? No?
Are you sure? Could you try? No? I see.” Ten minutes later: “I have to pee!”
Our destination was San Francisco. I’d forgotten
how—even in August—it can be downright cold there! We’d lived in the Bay Area
some time back, and it was fun to reconnect with the friends and neighbors we
miss. We visited favorite spots, Hubby mountain biked, we gazed at towering
pine trees. Some of my favorite moments came by surprise. I love rounding a
bend and discovering something unusual. This wedge-shaped building is one I
spotted while driving, and charmed by its atypical shape, I pulled over to take
its photo. It’s the Flatiron Building in San Rafael, ca 1883. You know I love
buildings that do not sport the usual 90-degree angled corners.
While lost in the Oakland hills, I came upon a
gorgeous front garden filled with dahlias, a flower I really like. There were
hundreds of dahlias, many colors and varieties (including hybrids), staked and
labeled. Clearly they were someone’s passion. This photo does not fully
illustrate how many were exploding from a tiny parkway strip in front of a
cottage, but it gives you an idea.
San Francisco has many residents who don’t have
yards and therefore there are quite a few community gardens there. I’d jotted
down the addresses of a few in case we had extra time but I was excited to
stumbled upon one nestled into the edge of a park. The variety of plants in a
community garden is one reason I like them so much. Each gardener has his/her
own taste and the result is a diverse mix of plants. The plant below is one I
was not familiar with but was captivated by because of its curling petals. I
later found it online and now I know that it is an Asian Tiger Lily:
Next to the garden was an old-school playground.
It reminded me of the parks I played at as a child, before playgrounds had
plastic structures. This pocked metal slide took me right back to 1979:
My final photo has a backstory worth sharing.
When we lived in Alameda (an island next to Oakland), we walked a lot because
the neighborhood was so pretty and one day I discovered a very narrow house.
Excited by my find, I told Hubby about it and drove him by the next time we
were out. It fascinated me! It was the narrowest house I’d ever seen and I was
curious about it. Years later we visited Alameda again and tried to find it. It
was harder to find that you’d expect, given how unusual its dimensions were.
But it had been painted and a tree had been planted out front so it looked
different than I remembered. We found it and I took a few photos of the house,
and was surprised to see something above the front door. The glass window above
the entrance read “Spite House.” Spite? Hmmmm. That’s not a happy word. I
needed to research this house.
After a little research I discovered that spite houses are
structures built in order to spite neighbors. There are various stories about
the origin of this house, which was built in the early 1900s. Wikipedia tells
the story this way: Charles Froling planned to build a house on land he
inherited. But the city of Alameda took some of the land to build a street,
leaving Froling with a small strip of space. He decided to build a house
anyway, apparently to spite the city as well as his unsympathetic neighbor. The
house’s dimensions measure ten feet wide by fifty-four feet long. The current
owner of the home posted online that it is sometimes hard to deal with people
asking her about the house. Many people like the house but some laugh at it and
ask her where the other half is. It
never occurred to me that some people would make fun of such a whimsical
house, and I can see how that would hurt her feelings. One’s home is an
extension of oneself and you don’t make fun of someone’s home. I find it
fascinating when a building has dimensions or angles or materials that are
different from what we usually see. (More blog posts on this in the future.
There’s a ton of inspiration online!)
Soon it was time to head home. More driving. More shrieking
from the backseat. Eventually we stumbled out of our car into our driveway.
After hours of confinement my joints were not happy with me but I shook out my knees
and hips and they eventually decided they could move again. Ahhhh, good to be
home. I checked on my backyard plants and planned to go to the community garden
the next day to see how it was doing. We survived the road trip. A few tricky
moments but mostly a great trip.
Hubby’s already scheming about the next road trip. Dude, we
haven’t even unpacked the car yet. Can we recover from this trip before you
start engineering the next one?!