Art can help us heal. I was reminded of this truth when my
friend Gladys gave her late mom’s jewelry to the mosaic workshop I led
recently.
The mosaic lessons were part of a local art camp organized
by our friend Veronica. It was at the church where I participated in the
community garden for a number of years. It’s where my kids did preschool. So I
have positive feelings about the place, and immediately agreed when Veronica
asked if I would teach the kids to make mosaic stepping stones.
We brainstormed about what to ask people to donate for the
stepping stones. With mosaic, you can mix and match, and the components don’t
have to be expensive. (This is a great way to repurpose things you may have
kept for sentimental reasons—a single earring, a broken necklace, old keys.
This is also an excellent way to bring whimsy to your garden—because mosaic can
involve things as random as hard plastic toys, extra scrabble tiles or almost
anything made of a hard material that can stand up to outdoor elements like
rain, wind and sun.)
The camp was possible because lots of volunteers came
together to make it happen. Gladys was there every day, helping. After the kids
finished their stepping stones I learned that some of the bracelets and
necklaces we used in our mosaic pieces belonged to Gladys’ mom, Ida. Ida passed
away recently, and Gladys has been sorting through her mom’s possessions. The
timing coincided with our need for donations for mosaic projects. Gladys told
me that it was more meaningful for her to give the necklaces to the camp rather
than to donate them to a thrift store. She liked that she would know some of
the kids who created something unique from Ida’s jewelry.
I divided the items into groups so that each camper would get a variety of items. |
I love that Gladys wanted to give new life to her mom’s
jewelry by giving it to the kids for art. In their grief, some people cannot
bear to part with a parent’s things, and I’m not judging that because we all
grieve differently. But I think that Gladys saw the potential for a little bit
of healing in donating Ida’s jewelry to the kids. These items are from Ida’s
past but they now have a future. Since I cut the necklaces up, the beads went
into more than forty different mosaic pieces. Maybe it is because Gladys and I
knew each other through the community garden, but I feel like turning those
necklaces into dozens of art pieces is similar to how gardening works. You take
one seed and it becomes a plant, which makes seeds, which turn into many plants.
The campers had fun making their stepping stones. (It led me
to want to make some for our place, which I began doing a few days later. Stay
tuned for Part 2 of this mosaic theme.) The kids had different approaches to
their mosaic art: some were meticulous, and formed symmetrical, detailed
designs. Others placed the pieces randomly, and finished in minutes. But they
all created a stepping stone. Some kids may not have back yards for keeping a stepping
stone, but these mosaic pieces can be a colorful welcome at the front door to
an apartment. Each stepping stone is unique, just like the kids who made them.
And now Ida’s jewelry pieces are in stepping stones
throughout San Diego, twinkling in the summer sun. Scattered seeds. And Ida
shines on.
Rachel was at the camp and had a wonderful time with the project! We are about to place the stepping stone into our front yard. Loved the story of Gladys' mom's jewelry getting used in such a beautiful way - paying forward!!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Debby! All the kids had fun, and it's great to have something creative to show for the effort.
DeleteWe just had a similar conversation at knitting group...what good are the things we get when others pass on if they're just going to sit in a box stored away somewhere...better to give to someone who will enjoy it.
ReplyDeleteMM--I agree. Hope you are doing great...
DeleteI love that you make everyday things look beautiful.
ReplyDeleteOh, thanks, Adri! How sweet...
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